Eloping isn’t just about signing papers or saying “I do.”
It’s about creating a day that feels deeply you.
A day where every little moment is intentional, slow, and soaked in meaning.
As Australian elopement photographers who travel across the country capturing adventurous, intimate days, we often help couples craft elopement timelines that reflect who they are — relaxed mornings, quiet adventures, golden light, and meaningful celebration. Because your elopement isn’t a rushed two-hour event — it’s a whole experience.
So, if you’re wondering what to do on your elopement day besides the ceremony, here’s some inspiration to help you dream a little bigger.
Start Your Day Slowly
One of the best things about eloping? No early wake-up calls or tight timelines (unless you want a sunrise first look, of course!).
Instead, imagine starting your day like this:
- Making coffee together at your Airbnb
- Journaling or writing last-minute vows on the deck
- Sharing a quiet breakfast with your favourite playlist on in the background
- Slow dancing to the record player or playing a competitive game of impromptu chess to start your morning
- Getting ready side-by-side, or in separate rooms for a romantic “first look” reveal
This slow start sets the tone for a day that feels grounded, connected, and full of presence.
Plan a Gentle Adventure
Your elopement doesn’t have to be a 5-hour hike — unless that’s your thing!
But a touch of adventure adds magic to the day.
Here are a few relaxed but breathtaking options that many of our couples love:
- Drive to multiple scenic spots for photos and vow exchanges — cliffs, forests, beaches
- Take a short walk to a lookout for golden hour portraits
- Plan a picnic hike to a secluded beach or waterfall
- Book a helicopter ride or boat charter to a remote ceremony spot
Many couples elope because they want an experience — not a production. Think of this as a romantic getaway with a meaningful moment in the middle.
Create Intentional Moments
Without the rush of a traditional wedding day, you can add in whatever feels good to you.
- Exchange private vows before or after your ceremony (just the two of you)
- Write letters to each other and read them during golden hour
- Do a “first look” and soak in that moment together
- Give each other a small gift or token to mark the day
- Include a cultural ritual or spiritual practice that’s meaningful to you
It’s your day — you get to make the rules.
Celebrate Over Food
The best celebrations end with delicious food — and your elopement day should be no different.
Whether you’re a foodie couple or simply love the idea of a cozy dinner after a day outdoors, here are some ideas:
- Champagne and a luxury picnic styled at a lookout or beach
- Private chef at your Airbnb (many will come to cook a multi-course meal)
- Tasting menu at a local fine dining restaurant
- Grazing platter by the fire pit with local wine or cocktails
- Book a private room at a restaurant – share in the restaurant experience all to yourselves
- Woodfired pizza and beers under the stars
Food brings people together. Whether it’s just the two of you, or a few loved ones, this part of your day can be as relaxed or elevated as you want.
Wrap Up the Day Your Way
The best part about eloping? You’re not tied to a venue curfew or packed dance floor. You get to choose how to close out this once-in-a-lifetime day.
- Toast marshmallows by the fire
- Watch the stars wrapped in a blanket
- Sink into the hot tub with a glass of bubbles
- Dance on the deck under string lights
- Go for a night swim or a moonlit walk along the beach
Your elopement doesn’t end after the ceremony — it flows into a night that’s entirely yours.
Real Elopement Timeline Inspiration
Here’s an example timeline that many of our couples love:
10:00am – Slow morning, breakfast + coffee at your Airbnb
12:00pm – Hair & makeup begins / Getting ready separately
2:00pm – First look, photos together, travel to ceremony spot
3:30pm – Vow exchange + ceremony
4:00pm – Scenic portraits, slow walk, champagne pop
5:30pm – Picnic at golden hour
7:00pm – Private dinner back at Airbnb
8:30pm – Campfire, hot tub or stargazing
Every couple is different — we help craft your timeline based on your vision, pace, and preferences.
Your Elopement Can Be Whatever You Want It to Be
If you’ve ever felt like the idea of a traditional wedding doesn’t quite fit — you’re not alone.
Eloping gives you freedom – to slow down, to adventure and to create new memories with your person.
And the best part?
You don’t have to figure it all out alone.
Ready to Plan Your Elopement Day?
We’re Vanessa & Linden — an Australian elopement photography duo who helps couples like you plan relaxed, adventurous elopements across Victoria and all of Australia!
From location scouting to timeline planning, we’re here for every step — not just to take stunning photos, but to help you create the kind of day you’ll never forget.
👉 Reach out to get started on planning your dream elopement day
